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Posted on December 12, 2011 by jb

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Internet Personals

Posted on December 6, 2011 by jb

The internet is one of the greatest inventions of all time. The ability
to communicate around the world, 24 hours a day with almost anyone. But
when it comes to dating, the internet is really just a step in the
wrong direction.

There are a lot of websites that claim they can put couples together
and some couples have gotten together through the internet, but the
reality is that you are much better off pursuing women in real life
than through the net. Even the biggest sites tend to have more active
men than women. Does that mean there are more men in the world? No. It
means that women are out doing other things while men are behind a
computer.

Women are social creatures. It is almost and innate ability for them.
Look at the mother/daughter relationship. A lot of women talk to their
mothers almost daily to talk about anything and everything in their
lives. They relieve stress by talking about it to others and getting
other peoples opinions. But men have been taught that they are suppose
to be strong, to keep feelings inside and ultimately tend to walk alone
without getting the advice that women tend to get innately. Men really
have it harder than women in a lot of ways. We will talk about this
more later, but when it comes to the internet women are out talking to
each other, having fun, and men are not.

How can you succeed on the internet? If you have good looks that will
be the best way. Good looking men will always get more women viewing
them online, same as good looking women getting blasted by thousands of
emails by men. You may also have a chance if you write a really
striking profile. But, remember, pictures draw attention not just to
men but to women far more than profiles do. So, the best key is to have
a really exciting set of pictures. Again, the odds are still against
you.

Your best bet is to get out and met women in the real world. Your odds
are far better. If you know how, instead of the 3 men to 1 woman ration
on the best dating sites and 10 men to 1 woman or worse on the worst,
you'll find yourself with possibly even a 10 women to 1 man ratio out
in the real world. Why? Because most men don't know how to pick up
women. If you know how, then you are way ahead of all the other men
around and their are far more women than men that know how to get the
women. So try the real world and come out ahead.
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Find a Girl Like YOU

Posted on December 4, 2011 by jb

If you have ever watched a couple that has been together for a long
while walking together, you may notice that they tend walk similar.
They're style of walking and posture is very similar. Some of this
similarity can be attributed because these two people have been
together for a long time, but not all can be attributed to that. The
most successful relationships are with people that express similar
traits. The old saying that opposites attract is far from true.
Successful relationships are almost always with people who are similar,
in thought, style, likes and dislikes, etc. But this is far easier for
someone not in the relationship to see than it will be from you when
you are in one. But if you are observant, the right girl just may be
right around the corner.

Look at yourself in a mirror. How do you stand? What characteristics do
you have? Next time you are walking look at your reflection in a
window. What is your style of walking? It doesn't matter how you look,
just notice the characteristics of how you look and walk. There is a
lot more than just the physical that goes into a relationship, but by
knowing how your own physical characteristics you can narrow down who
is more likely to be a successful partner and who is not.

A woman that has physical characteristics similar to yours is much more
likely to find you attractive. If you can find other common ground once
you ask her out, your chances are even greater. So one thing to look
for when finding your Dream Girl is to look at how similar her physical
style is to yours.
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Don't be Needy!

Posted on December 3, 2011 by jb

I'm a big believer in focusing on yourself and here's one reason why.
One of my former friends (and I say former as his neediness got to me
too) somehow found a girl and got married. He was always very insecure
with himself. And, although I never knew his wife well, I suspect she
was pretty insecure herself. Well, he ended up committing the worst act
any man can do when dating or being married to someone. He told her he
wasn't good enough for her and that she was better than him and she
should find someone that can provide for her better than he could. She
deserved better than him was his thought.

But why did he think this? Simple reason was that he was not secure
with himself. He had all the necessities that anyone needs. He had a
job, apartment, car, money in the bank and a wife. Yet he didn't feel
that he was good enough for the person he married. His own mind was his
biggest obstacle and his insecurity lead to his downfall.

Their relationship may have been hanging in the balance before that,
but his actions were showing his neediness. Instead of taking a minute
and focusing on himself and seeing what he could do to rekindle their
fire. He took the weak man's approach and ended up hurting himself
more. He did not want to lose her, yet he didn't know that the approach
he was taking was distancing himself from her. Had he of taken a step
back or talked to someone about his problems, he may have been able to
see that his internal self was the problem in the relationship. He may
have then been able to take the steps necessary to strengthen himself
and become a MAN, but he took the childish approach unwittingly and it
cost him the woman he loved.

Never be needy and insecure. You are better than that. Don't force
problems that are internal on others. Unless you are paying them
(psychiatrist, therapists or psychologist), you should never bring your
internal unhappiness upon another. You can be stronger than that and
solve your own problems yourself. Don't expect others to help you.
Bringing your self induced problems on others is not an attractive
force. It is a force that drives others away, even when they initially
try to help. Don't do it. Get professional help if you need it and
realize that you are better than you are making yourself out to be.

Most people who lack confidence have internal issues. They are
exhibiting fear that is only created by their own minds. Don't do it.
Realize that the fear you are creating isn't real and is being created
by YOU. Face that fear and build your confidence. Don't let a woman
escape because you are not internally complete.
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Why Dating Advice Fails?

Posted on December 1, 2011 by jb

Freshly invigorated with new information, a man sets out to find the
girl of his dreams. He goes to a bar, picks out a girl he'd like to
meet. He goes up to her using the new information he just learned from
some dating guru and says something to the girl. And BAM! Failure! The
girls reaction is nothing similar to what was taught to him. Not only
that, but even when he tried to no fail advice he was given it all
backfires. But why? The guy he learned it all hits on girls all the
time and it works every time. So why doesn't it work here?

It could be a number of things that went wrong. Lack of confidence,
overpowering remarks, bad advice...the list goes on. It works for the
dating guru every time, so why doesn't it work here? It could be
because you aren't using the dating guru's principles right, but more
likely, it's because the dating guru does something that he doesn't
realize he is doing. One example is that the dating guru instinctively
only goes after a certain type of woman. This is true with a large
amount of advice given to men.

There are tons of different types of women in the world. Each with
different belief systems, ways they act, experiences, etc. The dating
guru probably goes after a certain type of woman without even realizing
it. And because he does that, he has learned a strategy that works
almost every time. If you happened to learn directly from him, he'd
pick out the girl you are to talk to and you'd go up and have success,
but when you try it by yourself. Failure!

When it comes to dating gurus, take their advice at your own risk. They
may have a strategy that works for them, but that doesn't mean it will
work for you. Let alone, it may not be what you even want. Most dating
guru's focus on getting a new girl and getting laid each night. That
may not be what you want. In which case, no strategy that they are
teaching you will work for you. They know how to get a girl in bed with
them, but not how to keep a girl.

You need to focus on you, what you want, what you like in a girl, how
you see your life going, etc. The advice that you are given may be
helpful, but it may not be helpful in the way you've envisioned. Once
you find yourself, then you can start working on finding someone else.
Only when you become who you want to be will it be easy to find who you
are looking for. So focus on yourself first and take the advice as a
confidence booster and not as a surefire way of getting a woman.

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Simplest Strategy to get Laid!

Posted on November 28, 2011 by jb

Our posts have focused a lot so far on your own self and how to make
you attractive. Focusing on yourself is probably the biggest difficulty
men have, yet is also the most important factor when attracting women.
We'll continue to talk about it alot. As time goes on, we'll also get
into different strategies to attract women, keep relationships going
both short and long-term, and other topics regarding the world of women
and dating. Today I wanted to go over the easiest to learn, yet least
successful ways to go about getting laid. When you just want to get
laid one night, here is one way to do it.

I learned this method from watching an episode of "King of the Hill."
Boomhauer always had a new woman, but nobody knew how he did it, until
one episode. Boomhauer went to a clothing store and just asked any
woman he saw out. If they said no, he went to the next woman and then
the next and next and so on. This also the simplest way to get what you
want. Just keep asking until it happens.

If you're feeling brave and want to get laid one night, go out to a bar
and ask every woman you see "Do you want to ****?" or some variation.
The odds are against you and most women will tell you No, but if you
ask enough women (assuming there are enough women at the bar) you'll
eventually find one that says Yes. So your chances are better, you
might find it easiest to go to a place with lots of bars or clubs
around. Your success rate per woman is extremely low, so the more women
you ask, the better your success rate becomes. You may have just a 0.5%
success rate, which means that you need to ask 200 women before you get
a Yes. But it will come.

The upside of this strategy, other than the chance to get laid that
night, is that it gets you out of your comfort zone. The more things
you do that are uncomfortable, the less fear you will have and your
Confidence level will go up. You may just want to try it just to gain
Confidence.
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Fashion is Essential, Really!

Posted on November 25, 2011 by jb

Want an easy tip to impress the ladies and leave the other men in the
room in awe. It's very simple, yet most men don't or won't use this.
There is too much of their own reputation at stake or they just don't
get it. Either way, you'll be seen above 95% of the men around using
this technique.

What is it? It's dressing well. Fashion for Men! Don't be scared away.
If you want to get noticed by the girl, dress well. Most men don't do
fashion well. A lot have their own "style", which is definitely not in
style, yet they will never change because that will change who they
are. Or so they think. I'm not telling you to not be who you are. I'm
telling you that dressing nice will get you noticed by women. And
combine it with confidence and the right body language and you will be
unmatched!

A lot of guys have a shirt that they like to wear at night that they
think will attract the ladies. But what if you not only have the shirt,
but the pants, shoes, belt, etc. Just think about it. 50% of the guys
at a bar or night club will be dressed in a nice shirt. But almost none
of them will have on anything else that looks nice. Do women notice
only shirts? No, in fact, a lot of women will notice your shoes before
your shirt. Yet most men, even when at a bar or night club and wearing
a nice shirt, will have sneakers or some other lame shoe on.

You've heard women talk about shoes and you know they have tons of
them. What do you think they will think of a guy that has nice shoes?
Yeah, you should be that guy and it doesn't have to be expensive. Of
course if you have the money, the more expensive items are fitted and
look nicer than the cheap ones, but even the cheap ones will get you
ahead of 95% of the men at the bar or club. Why? Because they won't
even try.

A simple trick of how to create your fashion is to buy the shoes first
and then base the style around the shoes. Women do this. Yet men think
wearing shorts, flip flops and a button down shirt will do just fine.
If you've ever read any advice from pick up artists, they always talk
about fashion. Every movie you see with a guy that truly knows women
has the guy dressed way up. (i.e. James Bond) Yet for some reason, most
men can't understand that dressing nicely helps attract more women.
It's definitely not the sole reason to attracting women, but if your
idea of going to a bar is to meet women and you're dressed in a ball
cap, hoodie, pair of baggy jeans and dirty sneakers, you're far more
likely to end up alone or passed out drunk than with any woman there.

Get ahead of the game and be noticed by women by dressing fashionably.
You can do it on the cheap too. You might try looking at high end
websites to get ideas of what is in style and then find cheaper clothes
that fit that style. Or you can try to find your fashionable style
yourself. The easiest way is to start with the shoes. Belts usually
match the shoes. Pants that fit are ideal. Get them tailored if you
have to. Try doing at least two layers with shirts. Either a shirt and
blazer or t-shirt and nice button down or try coming up with something
yourself. Or go full out with a well tailored suit. A good haircut is
also ideal.

So to impress the ladies, dress well. You may be surprised at some of
the women you're able to attract. Next time you're out, notice the guys
around and see what they are wearing and who they are talking to. Also,
next time you watch a tv show or movie or go anywhere with a large
amount of people, look at who stands out in the crowd and who doesn't.
I bet those that have a sense of style (not always a necessarily good
style, but a style) stand out far more than anyone else. If you want to
blend in, be like everyone else. If you want to impress, do something
different and dress up.
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Which One?

Posted on November 23, 2011 by jb

The choice came up of which of two girls to talk to. Neither was part
of the same party. One was talking to a friend of hers while the other
was alone. Seemed simple enough. Yet, something inside said "wait, what
if she sees me talking to her?"

Fear set in, an illogical fear. Did it matter if one saw me talking to
the other? No, not in the least. Did I have to choose just one? No, I
could have ended up talking to both. Yet, something inside myself
caused me to back off and my odds went down to ZERO.

What caused this to happen? Only myself. The only thing that can affect
your game, relationship, love life, etc. Yourself is your best friend
and your biggest enemy. You can, at times, get everything you want just
by acting with Confidence, yet, at other times, get nothing by acting
with Fear. Fear is your worst enemy and yet is completely internal.
There is nothing in the world that can instill fear in you except that
fear which you create yourself.

There is a place for fear. Fear is necessary for our evolution. Without
fear, your ancestors would have done careless acts which would have
whipped out your bloodline and, hence, you would not be alive today.
Fear of heights, snakes, bees, large beasts, and even the fear of being
injured or killed by other men in the tribe were survival skills. If a
man was to seduce another man's woman, it may have been the last time
he ever laid eyes on a woman, so fear was a necessary part of evolution
in order to continue to live. Yet, in these days, necessary fear,
especially with women, is not as severe as it once was. But we still
have this program within our minds and it can inhibit many men from
attracting the women they deserve.

By knowing this programming and sensing when it starts to happen, we
can reprogram ourselves. The human mind is very adaptable to any change
that we choose to let in. But we have to what to reprogram ourselves,
or the old programs will dominate. By sensing when we are starting to
act fearful, we can instead cause ourselves to overcome that fear and
choose the path that we desire. In the case above, I could have talked
to the woman who was along and then to the other woman, if opportunity
was still present. At the first instance of fear, I could have let
myself know that such fear is irrational and only something I myself
was creating and instead of creating more fear, could have changed how
I was acting to act in the manner of which I desired. Overtime, that
fear that I created would lesson until it was null.

Anytime you are fearful, stop and think that all fear is internal.
Nobody creates fear but yourself. So whenever you start to feel fear,
stop, reflect on what is going on and change your course. You have the
power to change yourself, so do it. Stop the fear that is getting in
your way.
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Don't Miss a Chance with the Woman of Your Dreams

Posted on November 22, 2011 by jb

In 1854, Louis Pasteur, the French Chemist, said, in part, that "chance
favors only the prepared mind." Over 150 years later, those words still
ring true. He wasn't talking about relationships or women, but his
message was clear that in any situation those who are prepared will act
while those who sit on the sidelines will be left out.

When it comes to women and dating, be prepared. You never know when
that perfect woman will walk into your life. Don't let chance skip past
you. Prepare yourself now.

But how can I prepare myself? Think back to when you were in high
school chemistry. You may not have liked high school, but that's not
the point. How was chemistry taught? First, you were introduced to the
material. The teacher would explain what happens when molecules
combine. Then, you'd move into the lab and get to experiment with the
molecules and see what happens. These are your first two steps. First
you learn the material. Then you experience how the molecules actually
work with your own eyes. The last step, which we'll talk about below,
is not necessary, but it will make you more prepared than you can
imagine.

First step: Learn the material. Your first objective is to learn about
women. In reality, most guys know very little about women, which is why
women are so foreign to us. Ever hear a guy say that he doesn't
understand women? That's only because he has learned about women. Women
don't think like men, so if you learn about them, you'll gain an upper
hand. There are millions of sources on the internet about women. So,
start searching for women, dating, relationships, etc. and you will
discover a wealth of information. You're going to find so much
information you'll be overloaded, but that's the point. The next step
is where the magic happens.

Second Step: Experience the material. Your second objective is to
experience what it is like to be around women. It sounds simple, but is
a complicated step. You need to start slow. Start by smiling at women
whenever you walk past them. See how they react. It'll almost always be
positive and you've just gained experience. Next, say "Hi" and see what
happens. Whether things go good or bad, you'll gain experience. The
more you have the more equipped you will be when the woman of your
dreams walks by.

You can think of these steps as "book smarts" and "street smarts."
Those with "book smarts" know a lot of information, but don't know how
to apply it. Those with "street smarts" know how the world works, but
don't know enough to make use of it. Knowing both is invaluable. You'll
be able to handle any situation no matter what a woman does.

The last step is to teach what you know. Ever hear the phrase,
"teachers make the best students?" If you have learned about women and
have gained experience around women, your last step is to teach. It
doesn't matter who you teach. Teaching reinforces everything you know
until you become the expert. And best of all, if you've mastered the
material, others will look up to you and you'll gain a power that very
few people will ever achieve. The karate master is the best and even
when he doesn't show it, people know he is and listen to what he has to
say because if they mess with him they'll regret it. Don't you want be
the Master!

Louis Pasteur was a master. He knew what he was doing and had some
great wisdom to teach others. I'm going to leave you with his secret to
his success to ponder as you journey down the road to becoming a
Master. "Let me tell you the secret that has led me to my goal. My
strength lies solely in my tenacity."
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To Beard or Not to Beard

Posted on November 22, 2011 by jb

A growing trend is emerging, especially with younger men: growing
beards. Everything from the full on beard to the goatee. But is it
something you should be doing too?

The answer is not clear cut. There are advantages and disadvantages to
having facial hair. Facial hair can make you look older and can
possibly portray an increased masculinity. Yet, it can make you also
look immature and appears as if you are hiding your true self.

So, should you grow facial hair? First, you can never go wrong being
clean shaven. Many women prefer clean shaved men. Women like to feel
smooth skin especially when they kiss you. Facial hair can scratch
women who are kissing or touching your face which can cause them to
desire not to kiss you as often.

But having some kinds of facial hair is also not a bad thing either.
Trimmed mustaches and goatees are in. They can make you appear more
masculine, but it can also deter some women from desiring to kiss you.
Overall, a trimmed mustache or goatee is a good thing if you desire to
grow facial hair. But make sure it is trimmed. Untrimmed is not a good
look.

Sideburns and scruff are dying trends. They are popular among the
college age men, but very few men desire this style after college and
there is a reason for that. Sideburns and scruff are used almost
exclusively by boys to make them appear like men, even though they
aren't yet men. This is basically the equivalent to a man's 5 o'clock
shadow except it's 24/7. If you have this look, it's not necessarily
horrible. It can help your confidence and will make you appear more
masculine to other men, but it's not a look that women tend to care
that much about. Most women will change your look if you have this
style within a few months of dating you, almost guaranteed. So, while
not as good as a trimmed goatee, this style is acceptable for the
younger aged men.

Full beards. Never acceptable, unless you are a stereotypical "biker"
or an incredibly confident man. Otherwise, the full beard is a deal
breaker for women. Very few women go for that look. If you have the
desire to choose this style, you need the confidence to back the style
up. A truly confident man can have any style he wants and it won't
matter. But very few men have the confidence for this. Also, a lot of
men growing beards are balding, which makes it appear that they are
desiring to cover up their heads by growing hair elsewhere, which is
not a the look of a confident man. Funny thing is, women don't like
kissing men with beards, yet some men don't seem to get this.

Overall, facial hair is not a necessity. It can have some advantages
especially with your pecking order with other men. And since social
status is an attractive quality for men, facial hair can have some
advantages as long as it's not too much facial hair and it's kept
trimmed. Otherwise, most women won't even give you a shot. If you can't
pull off a facial hair look, don't sweat it. Clean shaved is always an
attractive look to a woman.
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